“They Say …” And Who are “They?”

June 24, 2009

2383609933_d33a63d750_mtheyWhen under attack by critics or when trying to impress, facts and sources can elude us. The easiest escape route from stress or embarrassment often is to inject, “they say …” into the dialogue. Fortunately, few people challenge us to identify “they;” unfortunately, “they” can influence the final decision.

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10 Ways to Un-Vex Your Life in Four Minutes

June 17, 2009

3343817687_262fb78eba_m-worryWhat hinders productivity and increases stress is failure to clean up loitering vexations – those slight annoyances, anxieties, and distresses that we leave unresolved. Take four minutes to get one or more off your mind and out of your life.

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Differentiating Yourself: 3 Tests, 5 Tactics

June 8, 2009

3x5logo150 You’ve figured out what separates you from the crowd. Now comes three tests of your courage to be different.

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Learning from the Mistakes Others Won’t Forget

May 27, 2009

3011490607_68aa278043_mhookerMaking and learning from mistakes is viewed as healthy in many organizations. What’s unhealthy is that some people won’t let you forget. Here’s what you can extrapolate and apply from mistakes to help combat detractors and expunge the bad memory.

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3 Reasons to Reconnect with Your First Boss, 5 Other Relationships to Rekindle

May 20, 2009

3x5logo150 Rewiring yourself to those who once connected you to life-shaping experiences and ideas can be energizing.

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Organizational Hula Hooping: Gyrating Change

May 14, 2009

2592267101_1c969588a7_mhulaA simple plastic ring once kept lots of kids – and some adults — laughing and trim. A simple approach to organizational change rather than trying to digest a big-meal fad can do the same.

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3 Reasons Middle Managers Don’t Change, 5 Ways to Change Them … Maybe

May 7, 2009

3x5logo150 Middle managers are a tough bunch to change, but there are ways to ease them forward.

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The Loneliness of Aloneness

May 5, 2009

59bridgeAloneness in the U.S. has a certain cachet and swagger about it: the leader at the top, the entrepreneur. But for those who venture away from the crowd, aloneness is less about bravado and more about a nagging condition that many separatists don’t or won’t talk about, or even acknowledge.

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